vacant_junk_lot (where i dump these thoughts)

Friday, March 30, 2007
11:14 AM

"..so don't you bring me down today.."

that was an excerpt from aguillera's song "Beautiful". it's weird right, it is said that we are all created equal but the world is just not fair. inequality is what constitutes life here on earth. i wonder what people get from belittling other people? does that make them any better. no, i think not. so i came up with my own theory behind these kind of people. these people are simply insecure. yes, insecurity is the root of it all. when a person cannot accept that someone is better than them, they will try the most disguised way of putting them down and that is by belittling them. or sometimes by making "lait" (yak, ang conyo ko..hehe)

sorry but right now i can't think of the term in english, so pls. bear with me if i'll keep using the word lait ok..nyihihi..(<--- weeh!)

it's alright if we lait other people for what they do, but for what they are? i don't think so. i mean, no, it's not right to lait other people but admit it, we all do this but mostly to strangers. people who we do not really know and will not meet again. after all we are just making assumptions and other stuffs, just for fun. BUT, but when it is someone you know, especially if it's your friend, well that is a different thing. i bet if it is your friend, he/she is insecure. there's no other way he can think that will make you feel down but by striking your imperfections and other stuff. well, who would forget that nobody's perfect.

i think you're getting to the bottom of what i'm saying here. i'm not really good at explaining things. anyway, i just want to say that these kind of friends (i mean in the first place, how can you consider such as friends, well sometimes the excuse is that because you are too close to each other that you can just say anything to them. ok given, i agree with that anyway, but if it is done on a regular basis? i mean c'mon what is your problem?) should be ignored when they start making lait to you (omg, that is damnest phrase i've used) just think that, this person is too insecure of me well what can i do? you'll never get anywhere doing that haha (yea with an evil laugh, but all in the mind ok!). just don't make lait him as well, remember don't do to others what you don't want others to do unto you and also because you're not insecure of him/her because there's nothing to be of.

if you got friends like this, i feel you. and i want you to take their word's as compliments. :) be happy you're great!

"keep away from people who belittle your ambitions. small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you too can become great" -Mark twain.

think happy thoughts!

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